​I had recently found out my husband was living a double life.

​He was living another life while pretending to be in ours. I certainly didn't feel like I could confront him.​ He was a leader in the community and I didn't think anyone would believe me. ​I kept it a secret from everyone but God.

 I knew I needed to leave, but how? when? where? ​I didn't have any answers and was scared. I decided to stay until I had more answers, then - I ended up pregnant.

Through the next three years, it seemed that the month of March had it in for me. Each spring for the next two years I ended up back in the ambulance on a ride to the hospital.

The second ambulance ride started with going into premature labor. I was in the kitchen doing paperwork and suddenly I was in shock standing in a pool of blood. It was clear something was drastically wrong.

After an intensive labor I delivered my still born son, Evan. A piece of me died with him that day and I ​sunk deeper into depression.

In the third ambulance ride, my heart was under the scope. I ended up in the hospital having a barrage of tests to illuminate a small defect ​on a valve that could have been the result of the hole in my heart. "Manage ​your stress, ​your diet, and ​your time,"​ was the doctors orders. The only other alternative was a medication that would worsen my already weak kidneys and possibly death.

While trying so hard to get healthy and strong, I was spent a lot of time taking care of other people, including ​my dad with lung cancer.

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​I had 3 active kids all involved in various activities and I was in the center of all the activities. In addition I was working on my own business projects burning the candle at both ends. I was exhausted!

Before I learned about my husband's other life I started a business creating home management strategies to save time in the home.

I had studied everything I could about time management and homemaking tasks.

It made total sense to me that if you planned out all the things that we repetitively do then it should create a surplus of time for the things you wanted to do.

I could get many things done in a short amount of time, After helping my friends, family, and their friends the same thing I thought it was time to build a business around getting more time.

During these years of preparing, my house ran like clockwork, the chores got done, my schedule flowed, and my finances all got paid on time. However, time for my projects and time for myself didn't receive much attention.

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I was out of balance, I wasn't getting strong as fast as I needed to. I was putting my own emotional and mental and spiritual needs at the bottom of the list.

That was a problem!

I had not filled up my vessel with the things I needed to maintain balance and have the strength to leave​. What I was currently doing was NOT working!

I was at a decision point. There were no more tears, there were no more pity parties, I was numb and ready to leave. My emotions lay dormant and my rational thinking mind kicked in. I needed to reduce my stress, take back my time, get my life in balance, choose to get a divorce or stay and risk dying young. 

I needed ​a plan for myself, I had to heal my spirit, my mind, and my body NOW! So, I turned to my Heavenly Father, the temple, prayer, and personal study. I still chose to tell no one. I was still in shock and ashamed.

The first thing I did, was put my emotional, spiritual, and mental needs at the beginning of the day.

Next, I read self-help books and I received more ideas on what I could change. Things started to go a little bit better, my mindset started to improve, and I started to get stronger.

​I left my husband, I took the children and ​moved hundreds of miles away to Colorado. I left my business, family, and friend and started from scratch. I know that none of this could have happened if I didn’t have systems in place that ran on their own as I went through all these changes.

That was six years ago. I married a wonderful man with six children, together we implemented these same systems into our blended home. At first it was difficult with all ten children, but over time they all got use to it and once again I have a smooth running home! Now, I have new friends that ask me to help teach them how to make their homes run more like clockwork. 

​I started up my business again and created the Home Reset… a system that - when followed - keeps every room in your house clean all year long with meals, scheduling, and personal development (don't forget this one) running smoothly.

If all this program did for you was give you 2 more hours a day wouldn't it be worth it?